Did you know that there can be obsession in any love relationship? It is something that seems distant but very common. When it comes to obsessor and obsession, the first image that comes to mind may be that of the movie The Exorcist, isn’t it? To demystify and better understand how everything happens, let’s present the main concepts of this subject:
Obsessor is a spirit, disembodied or not, that has a negative influence on one or more people, causing their energy to become unbalanced, diminishing it and making it physically, emotionally, mentally and / or spiritually unstable. Whether the spirit can be disembodied or not means that anyone we live with can be an obsessor, even you can obsess other people! Obsession is this process that involves the obsessor and the obsessed, who feel repressed, sucked, and other symptoms of obsession that we will see later. Not only the love relationship, but any relationship can be suffering the effects of an obsession. There is no way we can live alone – nor do people who choose to live out of society live so alone – and we approach people by the degree of affinity we have with them. We attract people and beings, entities, spirits through our need for learning and the karma we generated earlier. This might be classified as love and relationship advice.
Affinity and intimate reform
In a relationship, people are attracted because they need to harmonize with each other, and the partner, boyfriend, spouse becomes a trigger for their negative emotions. When these emotions arise, there is the opportunity to act differently — healing the emotion — or to act as usual. Often, lack of understanding or even ignorance about it leads the couple to intense crises. When negative emotions arise and people are unaware that they need to be harmonized, there is a conflict that generates energy demands and wear.
When we charge the other to be and behave as we want, the freedom and lightness of the relationship are lost, the vibration drops, and so the relationship becomes obsession, where the person who charges becomes obsessed with the partner who is charged and scolded. To better understand, imagine a couple has lived together for many years. He works all day and comes home tired at the end of the day. The only thing he wants is to stay home sitting on the couch. She works at home, takes care of everything and spends time on the internet, waiting for her husband to arrive.
Not having many friends, she expects her husband to take her for a walk or to accompany her. He does not want to leave the house, however, as he has been away all day. Then the fighting begins and the emotions arise: she thinks he should give her more attention, take her for a walk, because she only stays at home and very alone. She feels deprived, abandoned by her husband who only thinks of working. He thinks she should calm down and be content with the situation. After so much time arguing with no agreement, no progress, the couple move away emotionally, no longer talk about other matters, and no longer do so many things together. Most of the time, both charge and blame each other for their discontent.
The responsibility for your happiness is all yours.
What would be healthier in this case: both should look at their needs and failures so that they can heal them and not project them on the other, i.e. without shifting responsibility and blaming the partner. This is not so simple yet, as most people have the image of the perfect partner in the head, the prince or the enchanted princess. For example, a wife who sometimes feels dissatisfied with her husband but she always tries to encourage him to become a person who approaches the ‘ideal picture’, however, this ‘normal behavior’ sometimes leads them into unhealthy relationships. This is a totally mistaken picture. By believing in it, it is understood that we need someone to end our loneliness, neediness, low self-esteem, fear, anguish and so on. It is believed that the prince or princess will change the current reality. This is an illusion! Acting in this way happens the transfer of responsibility, and the responsibility for your happiness is all yours!
It is through this loophole that emotional obsessions enter the couple’s life, because when the partner does not meet the person’s needs and expectations, they will naturally begin with the demands for them to behave in a way that they can behave. way that pleases you. This is what we saw in the example above; this is not unconditional love, but conditional love, also called selfishness. The situation clearly shows that we are all still immature in our emotions and, consequently, in our spiritual awareness.
Obsessive Spirits in Relationship
When the couple’s emotional field manifests this still immature model, demonstrated by the lack and gestures of selfishness, there is an energetic opening to harmful spiritual influences from energies and beings, entities of the spiritual plane. The physical, emotional and mental dimensions are linked to the spiritual, so an influence of any kind on the spiritual body resonates with other bodies, affecting the mind and emotions more intensely.
Spiritual obsessions disrupt the life of the couple greatly, because the naturalness and lightness between the partners is shaken whenever external forces are acting negatively. Obsession can affect only one person at times. In others, the obsession may occur in both, separately or at the same time. The types and forms of entities and beings acting are also very varied, but the cause of obsession is always the same: spiritual neglect.
How to neglect the spiritual life?
Just stop seeking inner reform, stop studying spiritual evolution, meditate, pray, do the gospel in the home, have negative habits, addictions, and set aside spiritual values. In fact, it’s all a matter of tuning. We cannot blame the obsessors. We draw into our field beings who are in the same vibration as ours, and they only act because we “let down” our guard, that is, when the couple does not take care of themselves, failing to do all these things mentioned above.
Obsessors often exploit flaws and declines in attitude; In a silly argument, they can favor the fight, the chaos, in which the couple sinks and wears out emotionally. But most importantly, find out in our attitude where we allow an obsession to affect our relationship. The cause may be lack of love, lack, the transfer of our responsibility to the loved one, among others. We might need to read motivational quotes so we can be wiser.
Symptoms of Relationship Obsession
There are symptoms that can be identified, but there is a big pitfall in thinking that any couple’s crisis is related to a negative spiritual influence. Thus, great care is needed to analyze the situation and not to use spiritual obsession as a crutch for marital and affective problems. The simplest signs to identify are:
– Irritation above “acceptable”;
– Willingness to fight greater than willingness to maintain harmony;
– Overcharging for a particular behavior, especially when the attitude of one or both looks very different from a negative point of view.
There are cases where the person behaves bipolarly: one day, he is out of control, and the next he cannot say why he behaved that way, because he does not recognize himself.
The access and consumption of pornographic material is a factor that greatly influences the vibration of the couple. It’s something that is open to anyone who wants to see it, whether it’s in magazines, on TV, or on the internet. When a person attunes to these materials, he is opening his spiritual guard to attract obsessive spirits acting at these lower frequencies. This is not about moralism, but pornographic magazines, movies, photos, and internet videos are very harmful as they greatly facilitate the action of dense spirits who specialize in this pernicious action.
The process of spiritual obsession in love relationship
Above, we talk about obsessions between incarnated people, which can be ourselves or our partners. But there is also the obsession with disembodied beings. Sometimes suffering and lost spirits come together because of the energetic affinity and the attunement of the couple in crisis, deep in sadness, frustration and anguish. But there are also the “professional” obsessions, whose intentions are not as good as those of bewildered spirits and who often do not even know they have already disembodied. The tricks of shadow spirits have no limits, as the attacks by specialized spirits are usually sponsored by large-scale shadow groups and technology – yes, on the spiritual plane there are also very advanced technologies. After that, in a calm and natural way, energetic vampires hypnotically induce the person to conflict, inserting into their mental screen ideas and thoughts that seem to be their own. This information leads the couple to more quarrels, conflicts, demands and unloving, and is induced by their own emotional weaknesses to make the relationship chaos. This action is very serious and difficult to identify because it almost always demonstrates ideas related to what the obsessed person has, because these ideas have perfect resonance with his universe of thoughts and feelings.
